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Now a days our young generation facing many doubts about sexual life and they don't know what they can expect from happy married life.And also they do not know what the fact is Virginity means.Here Doctor experts and Muslim basis.
You can still marry her. For some reason, many people think that just because she had sex, she isn't worth it and should be treated like a used napkin, thrown in the trash. This is a mutation of some verses in the Quran stating that adulterers should be stoned or killed, but nowadays it's very acceptable to marry her, so go
ahead.
When a Muslim wants to consummate his marriage, a number of things are recommended in the sunnah:
He should treat his bride kindly and gently, like offering her something to drink and so on, because of the hadeeth narrated by Asmaa’ bint Yazeed ibn al-Sakan, who said: “I prepared ‘Aa’ishah as a bride when she married the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). I came to him and invited him to see her (uncover her face). So he came and sat beside her, and a large cup of milk was brought to him. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) drank some, then offered it to her, but she lowered her head and felt shy. I rebuked her and said: ‘Take it from the hand of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).’ So she took it and drank a little, then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to her, ‘Give some to your companion (meaning himself).’” (Reported by Imaam Ahmad and deemed saheeh by al-Albaani)
Rest assured no person (not even a man!!) can tell that a woman is a virgin (or not) by looking at her feet or anywhere else.When a woman has sexual intercourse her hymen is broken; but the hymen can be broken in other ways, such as horse riding, cleansing, athletics, or even by simply walking. If any man tries to tell you otherwise, tell him to take a hike!
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